For Dawn ...
It's been tossed around as a shockingly paradoxical rule in physics that apparently the mere act of observation influences the outcome of an experiment. I think that those of us who have been trying to relate to children, lovers, co-workers, and God could have saved the physicists some amazement if they'd just asked us.
Psychology tells us that we can't change another person, the only one we have control over is the one we see in the mirror. but BUT BUT - it is also true that we influence those around us by what we expect of them. The teacher told that the students in her class are all near genuis level intellects performs an academic miracle with otherwise "normal" kids. Simply because she expected to find genius, she does.
When I am discouraged and thinking that I'm not making much progress toward the dreams and hopes that I harbor for my life, I am encouraged to keep on looking for creativity, compassion, and courage because I believe that if I look I will find it.
And as I type this I realize that it's not a contradiction at all, by controlling my own outlook and expectations, I am doing nothing more or less than accepting responsibility for my sphere of influence.
"In Her Eyes"
She stares through my shadow
She sees something more
Believes there's a light in me
She is sure
And her truth makes me stronger
Does she realize
I awake every morning
With her strength by my side
I am not a hero
I am not an angel
I am just a man
Man who's trying to love her
Unlike any other
In her eyes I am
This world keeps on spinning
Only she steals my heart
She's my inspiration
She's my northern star
I don't count my possession
All I call mine and give her completely
To the end of all time
I am not a hero
I am not an angel
I am just a man
Man who's trying to love her
Unlike any other
In her eyes I am
In her eyes I see the sky and all I'll ever need
In her eyes time passes by and she is with me
I am not a hero
I am not an angel
I am just a man
Man who's trying to love her
Unlike any other
In her eyes I am
In her eyes I am
Lyric by Michael Hunter Ochs and Jeff Cohen
Recorded by Josh Groban on 'Awake'
For Bill ...
I have been tagged to list six weird things about me. Hmmm - I'm trying to think of something that's weird enough to be interesting and not so weird that I will lose the respect of all my readers.
1. I know that the word weird comes from an Old English word (wyrd), that it's related to an Old Norse Word (urthr) and to another Old English word (weorthan) from which we derive our contemporary English word (worth) - I know that weird for many centuries implied something magical, supernatural, or fated, and that it's only in recent times that it's come to mean oddity. I like the word weird.
2. I sometimes forget to finish shaving my legs so I'll have one smooth one and one furry one.
3. My feet don't stink. (Cheryl contributed that one.)
4. I know for certain that I'm not a funny person, but people are always laughing around me and acting like they think I'm funny. (Especially when I'm TRYING to be serious.)
5. My children can't think of anything about me that they think is weird. (Now I KNOW I'm doing something wrong.)
6. If I don't know that I have chocolate nearby, I get very cranky. I don't have to eat it, but I must know that it's there.
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