January 25, 2005
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I Rock
Okay - maybe it's more that my boss rocks. Here's what I've figured out, find someone who knows more than you, someone you admire and respect, someone who doesn't mind if you hang around and ask a million questions, and then dedicate yourself to learning what that person knows.
My boss at Service Mortgage is a man to admire. And he has in spades qualities that I lack. He grew up in Chicago where his family owns a huge advertising agency. He's worked on national campaigns for companies that are household names. And he's very very good at it. I'm not very good at what he does automatically. The man can market in his sleep, and in fact I'm sure he does.
I however, have nothing on my side except enthusiasm and the confidence that I can do a better job servicing my clients than anyone else in town. Which can easily be misinterpreted as arrogance instead of my determination to work harder and go further than anyone else. I think that my approach to marketing has been like trying to kill a fly with a sledge hammer. I don't know when I'm giving too much information and when to quit. In the end, the fly may be dead, but the destruction around pretty much ensures that I won't be killing any MORE flies that day.
I don't like debt. In fact, my friend has pointed out that it's rather odd that I've wound up in mortgage lending because I am so set against debt. But I recognize that no one just goes out and writes a check for a house. We need mortgages and we need lenders who have OUR best interests in mind rather than being focused on their own bottom line. That's where I come in. I want to feel good about what I do and that means that I'll make the extra calls, shop to the obscure lender, and basically do things that are beyond what anyone else does to make dead certain that the loan program I put you in is the one that is best for you.
Now - how do I communicate that to people? I don't know. And even worse, the people that I primarily market to are not the people who will be getting the loan. See, my customers are the real estate agents in town. They are the ones who bring me business or not. They are the ones I have to convince. So I not only have to get you the best loan, I have to work quickly, efficiently and effectively for the real estate agent. And I have to obey the number one rule of the game - don't waste their time.
But in order to begin that process, I have to do what seems like exactly the wrong thing. I have to "waste" their time listening to my presentation. Ay yi yi.
Dave is helping me get better, faster, and more effective. And I'm a lucky person to be working with a boss who can guide me into understanding something that I've never known how to do.
Thank you for your prayers and white light yesterday. Please keep it coming. I am WAY out of my comfort zone and putting myself in a position where rejection is a daily vitamin. But I have to do this if I'm to be successful, and I HAVE to be successful.
Hugs
Terri
Comments (12)
Sounds like you have the important part all figured out. The rest is just details.
How funny! I work in mortgage too and I think the exact same thing about my boss.
Cool bosses are the bomb!
Hang in there, woman -- it takes patience and dedication, and it sounds like you've got that part nailed.
You DO rock. Completely.
Enthusiasm is key!!
I'm like you about the debt thing...As a matter of fact, when it comes time to look for a mate (OK, most people would probably say I've already passed that time! LOL!), there is not much I would accept in the way of debt. A mortgage is OK as long as he's not obligated himself to more than is appropriate for his wages. I really don't want a mate who has educational debt because of the limitations this can place on one's life (i.e., if we wanted to go into foreign missions), but would consider it if his education is actually paying off (i.e., he went into debt, but he has a job that he wouldn't be able to have without his education). But there is no way I would want to bind myself financially to someone who is making payments on a Lexus and wears Armani suits that he charged to his credit card and didn't pay off when the bill came. Not that I would probably ever be attracted to such a guy (or vice-versa) in the first place!
My child, Robbie, is a chip off the old block!
Hang in there and we will all be cheering for you.
Hang in there, this is a learning curve that i know you will do great in...trust yourself, sweep the self doubt out the door as it isnt welcome...you will do great
love and sunshine
Kazi
Wow, I admire your drive and enthusiasm. Jenn
Hey liking your job AND your boss is a huge coups. You don't usually get both! lol
Congratulations! You have had a dream come true. You are actually in a positive, respectful working relationship. I've had it and nothing can compare on that level. Work your butt off and be one step ahead of your boss in all things. Anticipate, anticipate, anticipate. Enjoy!
I'm so glad you are enjoying your work relationship.
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