Starting as I Mean to Go On
It's been kind of heavy and depressing around here lately. So this morning I'm declaring it a day of rest and relaxation at the Q-Momi Manse. Yes, I know, we just came off a weekend, but I'll bet that none of you rested as much as you could/should have. Come on, pour yourself a cup of whatever you like to sip when you take a break and pull up a chair. Lets talk about things that make us feel good.
I'm a sucker for the "feel-good" movie. If Hollywood puts even a modicum of effort into producing a plotline and they guarantee me that it will end well ... they get my movie dollar every time. I like family movies and I liked them even more before I had a family to interrupt the good parts. On Saturday night, we plopped down in our living room to watch one that I'd seen trailers for last fall, but never managed to catch in the theater. Oh, MY! If I won the lottery, I'd give everyone I know a copy of Secondhand Lions for Valentine's Day. Michael Caine and Robert Duvall - well, you couldn't really go wrong there anyway. I loved this one. That's a Terri movie. I'll have to watch it again a couple of times before I sit down and write out a deep meaningful blog about the messages the film contained. For now, I'm content to giggle over the eccentricities of these old geezers.
Do you like games? I like games too. This weekend we played LOTR Risk. It's different from regular Risk, not just because you play on the map of Middle Earth, but also because the rules involve the Fellowship moving the ring, adventure cards that enable you to incorporate elements of the story into your play, and the 1+ advantage to having a leader among your battalions or to be defending from a stronghold. On Saturday, I lost. It's okay, I had a decent attitude about it. After much ribbing and gloating accompanied by advice to let go of my silly insistence on always playing the good guys, we set up the board again yesterday afternoon. This time, good triumphed decisively over the forces from Mordor.
Today, I'm looking forward to pleasures galore. The kids go back to school and I'm okay with that. They had a good weekend, now they can scoot on out of the house and I'll try to restore a semblance of order to the place. I'm heading in to the doctor to have the stitches removed from my shoulder (so I can wear a bra again, YES!) I even hope to snag an hour this afternoon to write. Ah, happy sigh.
I had a couple blogs brewing at the back of my mind over the weekend and I may still come back to these ideas later in the week. I would love to weigh in with an opinion about healthcare in this country, but honestly, it kind of depresses me. We've seen over the past decade that there exists absolutely no political will to address the fact that we have hardworking middle class people with abysmal healthcare because of the decisions of corporations, insurance companies, and welfare reformers all determined to give us the cheapest care they can. We have a crisis in nursing with far fewer people entering the profession than we need, and then being driven out of it by impossible working conditions. Fewer than 20% of our doctors are independent, all the rest are employees of hospitals, corporations, or other doctors and they are being squeezed out of their field by high costs and increasing regulation that take away their autonomy to run their practice under any model except the one the insurance companies insist they follow. - Oh, wait ... take a deep breath, sip that coffee and go back to rocking on the porch, Girl. It's our special set-aside Monday morning, and we're having a restful day here ... remember?
Come to think of it, when I'm out today, I need to pick up more bubbles. You can never have enough bubbles on hand you know. I usually buy them in little six packs, keep a bottle in the car, one in my purse. Because there's never a bad time for a bubble break. Seriously, think about that. It's hard to be stressed when you're puckered up blowing bubbles. If I'm known for anything, wouldn't it be cool to have people think - hey, she's the woman who always has bubbles on hand? Yeah, she's an odd bird but nice to have around.
When I logged in this morning, I had a link in my guestbook courtesy of Dee Dee. She asked me what I think about it. I'll give you the link and see what you think. (I think these authors have called it right, but I'm not sure what to do about it.)
Momi Myth
My friend, Mary, has been working on
her website and invites everyone to check it out.
Have a good Monday folks. The regular sober Q-Momi will be back, sometime.
"It is the chiefest point of happiness that a man is willing to be what he is."
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You are Desiderius Erasmus! You have great love for others and will do just about anything to show it to them. You are tolerant and avoid confrontations, so people generally are drawn to you. You are more quiet and reserved in front of strangers, but around some people you open up. When things get tough, you like to meditate alone. Unfortunately you often get things like "what a pansy," or "you're such a liberal."
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What theologian are you?
A creation of Henderson
Comments (24)
Link to Momi Myth isn't working sweetie. I hope your relaxing Monday is just as you plan.
I loved that movie too.
I read the Momi Myth article...interesting...because I don't know any Mothers like what they say we as a people now expect to have. I don't know many SuperMommis or SuperDaddies.
Mommy Myth looks interesting. I'll have to get back to the article later today - we're almost late for school!
Checked out your friend's site too, and will return. Enjoy your Monday. Thinking of you.
Hey, don't forget to pick up some more toilet paper while you're out.
Didn't have time to read the MomiMyth in its entirety, but love the opening stanzas.
Wish I could be there to drink another cuppa with you!!
I need to see that movie
My all time favorite comfort movie is "Mary Poppins." I saw it as a tot when it was first released and fell madly in love with Bert. Anytime I need to just feel cocooned and escape from unpleasant grown-up stuff, I just pop in that tape and wait for the magic.
Hope you have a peaceful and recharging day today.
I hope you thoroughly enjoy your day.
We have that Risk and I just rented Secondhand Lions ~ can't wait to see it. I loved Big Fish! It's got melancholy moments but all in all it ends happy (another one that needs watching lots of times, LOL! It's why I mentioned it.) I hope you have a restful day!
I was blown away by the fact that Michael Caine could pull off a convincing Texan. The only real flaw in Secondhand Lions was the lack of "Texas speak". I think of the way Ann Richards, Molly Ivins, Ross Perot and Lloyd Bentsen can turn a phrase - or folks I know like that old reprobate James Munson (a cowboy pal of my Grandad) or even Daddy. Where were phrases like "I felt like death on a cracker"? I know, I'm too nitpicky.
Bubbles are good.
BTW, my name is Dee Dee, not Deb. I would have emailed it but that doesn't seem to be working.
That article was really long. I read about the 1st third, true to being a mommie... I didn't have time to read it all LOL
But I get it. I FEEL it. I Live it.
Blessings to you Terri
Everyone needs a day to rest once in a while. Enjoy it.
I've haven't been any good at RISK for ages but I did get LOTR Trivial Pursuit. That is a good game, even I get called a loser for knowing the answers. The hardest ones are the brown movie qusetions. They ask crazy difficult questions about produsers and unknown actors. It's still fun with the added changes of a ringbearer and Nazgul.
Loved the Mommy Myth article, especially this bit:
Women without children, wherever they look, are besieged by ridiculously romantic images that insist that having children is the most joyous, fulfilling experience in the galaxy, and if they don’t have a small drooling creature who likes to stick forks in electrical outlets, they are leading bankrupt, empty lives.
I like the authors' style.
That movie is near the top of my list. Now, with your glowing review, I want to see it even more.
I love games. Risk is one of my favorites, but I usually have to play it against the computer. Never tried the LotR version though. We did play Scrabble this weekend and Denise whipped me. When she wins, she never lets me hear the end of it.
bahahahahaaaaaa!
bahahahahahhaaaaaa!
*wipes eyes*
just read the mommy myth.
it's a shame isn't it? that there are so many new moms and dads out there who think everything must be "just so"...when in reality...there are kids who kick and scream and act the fool...
hell, i had to use a dog leash on my girlchild b/c she broke two of the baby leashes. people would look at me and i'd say..."you want her?"
tantrums? sure! I'd keep walking.
Spankings? Yup. pulled off the road once when she unbuckled her carseat and took care of that right then and there.
and she knew the taste of dial by the age of three.
however...in spite of all those horrible horrible things (add tossed together meals...still no tv in her room, yada yada yo...)...she's an A or B student, personable, funny, smart and...she thinks I'm not so bad. We talk. We laugh. We rock the house. She'll be off to college next year. and we'll miss the hell out of each other.
There is no perfect mom There is no perfect dad. We are, at times, legends in our own minds...but never perfect.
ramble ramble ramble...lucky's rambling.
scoot over...this momma needs to rock a bit..
You have a great rest of the day and week yourself!!
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God Bless - Dale o/
Momi Myth... yeah, I knew that.
My take has been that it's a re-packaged same old retreaded double-standard, but then, that's likely just me.
I could have written that! LOL...it is my life!
I hope your day was restful and you got lots of bubbles.
You, as one of my early on, long time subscribers, reeeallly need to go over and help me name my print column. Deadline on the first part of the contest is Wednesday morning! 
BUBBLES! oO0OooOOo o o Oo OOOooo
Love 'em ... I want one of those bubble machines ... they make me giddy!
This flat out just made me smile!
As you know I had a wonderfully restful Monday, and a nice chat as I returned home, albeit too brief.
I saw "Secondhand Lions" as well. Very fine film. I look forward to reading your take on it.
Did someone say bubbles?????????/ Y'know I've probably got a dozen bottles on a shelf in the garage, compliments of many birthday parties and kids too old to use 'em. I think I need a bubble-break this afternoon!

a revolution of political, economic, and social change will come about in due time
Almost a totally relaxing blog... Seconhand Lions is awesome!
Mike
I don't know about others, but I was about fed up with the whining of the authors of the momi myth. Maybe if they just focused on being a good parent, they wouldn't realize exactly how inadequate they are. Or at least how inadequate they believe themselves to be, if they had to whine that much about it. Gotta be Republicans.
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